Looking Back, She Finally Saw How Far She'd Come
- Irene Basdakis
- Jul 9
- 3 min read
When Jackie first arrived at Grandma's House of Hope, she was carrying more than the weight of homelessness.
She was carrying trauma. Broken relationships. Fear. And the exhausting reality of trying to survive without feeling safe.
"I came from a really bad situation," Jackie recalls. "If I hadn't come to Grandma's House of Hope, I never would have been able to work through everything I was facing."
For the first time in a long time, she found something many people take for granted—a peaceful home.
Not just a roof overhead, but a place where she could finally exhale.
A place where she could sleep without fear and begin rebuilding her life one day at a time.
"It was safe," she says simply. "That may sound like a small thing, but when you've been traumatized, safety is everything."
At Grandma’s House of Hope Jackie found more than shelter. She found a community of women committed to healing together and a team of staff members who cared deeply—not just about where she would live next, but about who she was becoming.
"My case manager cared about my progress," she says. "Not just my mental health, but my life."
Each day brought structure and purpose. Participants learned practical life skills through budgeting, cooking, art therapy, wellness classes, and counseling. They shared meals, completed chores, attended therapy, and slowly rebuilt routines that many had lost along the way.
"Getting up, making your bed, doing your chores, taking care of yourself, building healthy relationships. Those things sound simple, but when you've experienced trauma, they're not always easy."
The expectations were clear, she says, but they were always paired with compassion.
Looking back now, Jackie realizes something she couldn't fully appreciate while she was living in the program.
"When you're there, you sometimes focus on the rules or the hard work," she says with a smile. "It's not until you graduate that you really see how much it helped."
Today, she recognizes that Grandma's House of Hope wasn't simply helping her through each day—it was preparing her for a lifetime of independence.
"They prepared me to move forward," she says. "I hadn't been moving forward for a long time."
That preparation gave Jackie something she thought she had lost: confidence in her future.
She built healthy friendships. She learned new life skills. She worked through painful experiences with the support of counseling and case management. Most importantly, she discovered that she was worthy of care, encouragement, and hope.
When asked what she'll remember most, her answer comes without hesitation.
"How much the staff truly cared."
It's a simple statement, but one echoed by countless graduates of Grandma's House of Hope.
For Jackie, that compassion made all the difference.
Today, she's building a new life—one grounded in stability, healing, and the confidence to keep moving forward.
When asked what she wants the community to know about Grandma's House of Hope, she doesn't talk first about housing or programs.
She talks about transformation.
"Grandma's House of Hope provides resources you can't find everywhere," she says. "It's built on love, progress, and safety. It helps people get back on their feet—not just to survive, but to truly succeed in life."
For women who are still searching for hope, Jackie has one piece of advice.
"Reach out," she says. "Get on the waiting list."
Because she knows firsthand that sometimes the first step toward a new life is simply finding a place where you are safe enough to begin again.
And sometimes, it's only after you've walked that journey that you realize just how far you've come.




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